Almost at the Starting Line

It is hard to believe that Sunday morning I will be running my second half-marathon.  When I first started training in February, the month of May seemed so far away.  Now here we are, only days to go before the Flying Pig.

Am I nervous?  You could say so, but to be honest I am not sure what I am nervous about.  Up until the last couple of weeks, I stuck to my training schedule much better than I did the first time I ran a half.  The longest run I completed was 10 miles so I know I can finish those 13.1, but it is just the anxiety that leads up to that starting line that is the hardest part to deal with.

I feel like I have also done a great job of listening to my body.  I have rested when I felt run down and I have pushed myself into believing that I can do this.  Here are a few other things I have learned from half-marathon training:


1)  You are your own worst enemy.

Sounds a little cryptic, I know.  However, the truth is that at those times when I doubted my capabilities, I was the only one who did.  My husband, family, and friends never doubted my ability to train and finish the race, but it was me who told myself I couldn’t do it sometimes.  It was my own self-doubt that told me to quit, to not sign up for the race, or to push myself to the edge or I won’t finish.  Luckily, I am blessed to have those around me to encourage me during those darker times.  It is true that no marathon is ran alone, but it is also ‘ran’ by the supporters around us.


2)  Training with a partner is fun!

I used to think that I only liked to run alone, that way I could control my pace and my schedule.  However, training with my husband has been an incredible experience that I will never forget.  It taught me that I can run faster than I originally thought possible, and it reminded me that running can be fun and doesn’t have to be all business.  I looked forward to these runs more than ever, because I knew it would be quality time I got to spend with Tim.  Training with a partner also taught me to be a little more flexible since we both had to be available.  I used to be very rigid with my work out schedule, but this time I had to share that schedule with my husband.  If we couldn’t run in the morning, then we would run at night.  If we didn’t run Monday, we would run Tuesday, etc. etc.  It was good for me to have more flexibility and to relinquish some control.

3)  Running doesn’t have to be your life.

This is a personal experience, and I am obviously not a trainer so take this with a grain of salt.  So many half-marathon training plans consisted of running at least 5 days a week, and running 20-30 miles a week.  I knew right off the bat that one of these programs were not going to be right for me.  I wanted to run the half-marathon, but I didn’t want running to take over my life.  I also know that my body is more apt to get sick or injured if I didn’t give it the proper amount of rest.  Because of this, I created my own plan where I only ran a maximum of three days a week.  This may not be right for everyone, but it worked out great for me.


4)  Listen to your body.

To go along with the above, make sure that you are listening to your body while training.  If your knees, ankles, calves are hurting, then rest them!  Use some ice, stretch extra, get in proper nutrition, etc.  If you feel yourself getting sick, make sure you get extra sleep, skip a day of exercise, take a vitamin supplement (like Amazing Grass).  Do whatever you have to do to not get sick!  Training can take months and months.  It is better to miss a day of running than to get sick, or get injured, which can take you out of the running game completely.


5)  Cherish every run.

You may read this and think, yah right!  Trust me, this was tough for me too.  There were so many times when I would dread going for a run, or would be on my first mile and wish I was on my last.  However, I tried to be very conscious about enjoying my runs and be thankful for the ability to run.  So many people would love to run or train for a half, and I didn’t want to take my chance for granted.  Of course there were moments when I didn’t want to run anymore, but I would say a couple prayers, put on a favorite running outfit, and listen to Pandora during my runs.  Good music always keeps me pumped up and gives me a reason to look forward to my runs when no other pep-talk would work.


There we have it.  Just a few of the many things I have learned about training.  At this point, I am only running one more time before Sunday (maybe a 2 or 3 mile run), and then it is time to run 13.1.  Thank you for all of your support and encouragement up to this point!  I don’t know what will come after the run, but as of right now all I know is that a half-marathon is waiting for me!



1)  What are some tips, tricks, thoughts that you learned while training for an athletic event?

2)  Anything you would like to add to my above list?

3)  Do you like running with a partner, or by yourself?

4)  How do you cherish your runs?

36 thoughts on “Almost at the Starting Line

  1. This just made me so excited! I’m running my second half marathon on Sunday also! I definetly agree with your point that running doesn’t have to be your life…. I was able to still attend spin and bodypump classes this time throughout my training because I made my own schedule and like you, only ran two or three times a week. Can’t wait to hear your recap!!

    • I totally agree! Just reading some of those tedious training plans makes me never want to run a marathon! Training is definitely much more of a personal decision and I find the runs more enjoyable when I call the shots!

    • I understand! For a while in college I was overdoing it on the work-outs and didn’t look forward to exercise. After I got mono though and was out of commission for a couple months, I desperately missed my exercise!

  2. I can’t believe your race is this weekend! Good luck; it definitely sounds like you’re prepared!

    I wouldn’t call myself a runner, but when I do go for runs, I prefer to go alone so I can listen to music which helps to keep my mind off of any “pain” I’m feeling!

  3. Can’t believe the race is this weekend!! You are going to do awesome :). I’m not really much of a runner, but I always have to remind myself of what a good run feels like so that if I have a bad run I don’t get too down about it!

  4. Good luck Jana! You’ll do awesome! I love running with a partner, but I ran the majority of my first half all by myself. It definitely was a challenge, but I feel stronger because of it. Can’t wait to hear all about the race!

    • I ran all of my training runs for my first half-marathon alone and I agree that I felt so mentally strong from it! I still love solo runs, but it is also nice to know that I can enjoy running with a partner too!

    • Don’t downsize it girl, a 5K is amazing too! I ran 3 miles this morning and it felt tough! I honestly think that the first 3 miles of running is always the toughest, then after your legs find a routine it is a little easier!

  5. I love this post, just what I needed! (I run my first half on may 12th). I think you hit the nail on the head with a partner. I don’t know if I could have done this without my fiancé. Having that support as you are running 10+ miles is truly amazing. You will do GREAT this weekend!! Can’t wait for the report!

  6. I am going to run my second half next month and I have the same thoughts that you do! I feel good during my training runs and I came in very close to my goal time last year, so I KNOW I can be successful….however, there are so many times that I think about the distance and time and think, “Can I really run this far!?” I am definitely my own worst enemy and I need to stop psyching myself out and just know that I CAN DO IT!

    Good luck! 🙂

    • There were times that I definitely questioned my abilities! My favorite would be in the middle of a run when I would tell my husband that I can’t do it, he would encourage me, I would keep running, and then before I knew it the run was over! Turned out that I could do it! 🙂

  7. Listening to your body is a great tip. And I agree that I don’t want to be running 5 times a week. I never run more than 3 days a week, and there are some weeks when I didn’t even do that!

  8. I like running by myself with my headphones on and some good music playing. I do always make sure to tell bf where I am going though 🙂 Have a great time and good luck with your upcoming half!

  9. Ahh so exciting that your race is getting so close! I am so excited for you 🙂 I think the best advice I got while training was not to try anything crazy. I didn’t really get into “carbo loading” or eating anything that different than normal (except maybe eating more food in general) and I think that helped make sure I never experienced any GI issues or low energy.

  10. I love that you created your own training plan! To be honest, when I ran my first half and full marathon I did so only running 3x a week. I realllly don’t know how people do it everyday! Maybe I just don’t like running that much 8)

Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in: Logo

You are commenting using your account. Log Out /  Change )

Google photo

You are commenting using your Google account. Log Out /  Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out /  Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out /  Change )

Connecting to %s